My name is Charlotte Haven and I am a 27 year old Engineer, Sissy, Crossdresser and/or T-Girl from Gosport, Hampshire in the UK. I have been interested in crossdressing since I was in my mid-teens.
I remember watching a programme on TV and for a joke they made the male contestants
dress as females. I don’t know why or how, but when I watched it I became very aroused
and slightly jealous that I wasn’t wearing what they were wearing. From then on I was
hooked. I did all the standard things like stealing lingerie from my sister and trying on outfits
when my parents were out, and the more I tried the clothes on, the more I felt great.
I also remember a time when I was round at a girlfriend’s house and she wanted to put
make-up on me. I was 15 and although I was secretly wearing women’s clothes and the
odd bit of lipstick on occasion, I had never properly been given a makeover. She did my
make-up fully and put me in a dress and then, when I looked in the mirror I loved the
reflection. My man mode had been eradicated and I loved the person I was transformed
By my late teens, I had started going out with my male friends and the crossdressing kind
of took a step back. I had also been pushed into joining the Navy, as I didn’t really know
what I wanted to do as a career. During the six years I spent in the Royal Navy, I met a
girl and got married. With hindsight, I should really have been honest early in our relationship,
and told her about my urges to want to dress and act like a girly girl on occasion.
However, at the time I was ashamed and buried my feelings. It was only a year after I
finally got married and left the Navy that I finally told her about Charlotte.
Initially she was shell shocked and very upset and felt like she had not married the man
she thought she had, which was fully understandable, I guess. However, after talking and
reassuring her of my love for her, she decided to let me dress occasionally.
I was so happy! I could order some nice dresses and feel comfortable enough to wear
them around her. I would class myself as a sissy as I love all those frilly sissy clothes and
all of the delightful fabrics they come in. Don’t get me wrong though. I love wearing
standard pretty female clothes, but I also love OTT sissy clothes and the reactions from all
my fans when they see me in a big frothy, frilly sissy dress… lol.
So for the last three years my dressing and acting like a female has increased. Initially it was very few and far between as it took my wife a long time to adjust. But slowly over the past few years I’ve been able to dress more often and also delve into other things.
At the start of last year, and with the agreement of my wife, I decided to seek a mistress to teach me to be a proper sissy and serve properly. Unfortunately this relationship with my new mistress didn’t last long but during that time I was very lucky to film with some very good websites and shoot some very nice pictures. I have also been writing a blog since the start of last year, to share my thoughts with all my followers and fans. I meet up with other sissies from time to time and we share fashion tips as well as different dress ideas. Most sissies tend to be owned and are very shy as most of them hide their sissiness from their wives and husbands.
I’m an everyday kind of guy who has a full time job as an engineer and I only occasionally dress as a sissy, do photo shoots and go to events, mostly at weekends and during holidays. I don’t have any plans to become a full time sissy as I enjoy the novelty of being Charlotte when I can and I do not want to mix the fantasy with reality.
Many sissies do like the idea of going full time however, but in most cases this is pure fantasy. Often, they go through a phase of being a sissy and then end up wearing regular women’s clothes and choosing to transition to become female.
There are many places where you can dress up and meet other sissies and admirers in the UK and these tend to be at fetish events around the country. You can find most of the events on the web. There are many communities of sissies on the web too, on fetish websites such as Birchplace and FetLife and also on social media sites like Facebook and Twitter.
I absolutely love exhibitionism, and I really enjoy being in front of the camera. I also love the praise that comes with it from all of my Twitter followers (@prissysissy88). If I’m honest, I get high from it. When I’m having a really shit day at work and I read a tweet with a lovely comment, it just makes my day and I love it.
For me being a Sissy means transforming into a very pretty girly girl and wearing the frilliest of dresses, which make me stand out from the crowd. When I wear my outfits in public or on camera I love feeling like the
centre of attention. When you wear those clothes and makeup, you regress into a more submissive state. I like to be submissive, because I believe a sissy should not only be pretty and beautiful but to also serve a purpose. That’s why I myself and many other sissies are in female led relationships.
I am not sure what the future will bring just yet but it would be great if I could set up my own dressing service and teach young sissies how to dress properly and how to act as a proper sissy should. I am also currently in training for a charity half marathon in London, so I am very busy, busy, busy. I want to continue having fun and having lots more exciting experiences, and just feeling good as Charlotte.